Saturday, March 22, 2008

Free Online Dating Profile Writing Tips

After you've finally decided to register at a free online dating site you will need to create an online dating site profile for other dating members to be able to find you and get to know a little about you.

When creating a profile on a free dating site you have to be very careful. You're aren't joining for nothing right? You're joining the dating site in order to find someone special and these days that special someone you may be looking for is usually as serious as you are and most likely going to be picky. The reason is because at a free online dating site you don't have to pay for anything which means you can take as much time as you like searching through the dating site members. If you don't like this person's dating site profile just move on to the next. If you don't like that person's free online dating profile, again, move on to the other. Eventually the member will find someone they are interested in and usually that person has a fantastic free dating site profile.

So below we've complied a list of tips on writing a free online dating site profile that we hope you read through and take tips from. Believe us, it will help you stand out among the rest. There is no guarantee that taking these free dating site profile tips and using them will work 100% of the time but we're again we're sure it will help you get to the top of the hearts of the people who are reading it.

Below is the free online dating site profile tip list:

1. Try your very best to avoid saying anything negative in your free dating site profile body copy such as, "I'm not interested in meeting any liars or people that cheat, like my last boyfriend," and try to avoid comments that sound like "I don't need something like a casual affair". By saying such negative things in your online dating site profile you will certainly attract it all the more and you might get messages from people who want to razz you. Instead simply focus on what you're really looking for and be as reasonable as possible about that as well. These days males usually seek out size 8 women and women ask for men over who are over 6 feet tall. Remember the saying: "You can't always get what you want"? Well it certainly applies to free online dating. It certainly does.

2. As soon as you log onto the free online dating site profile creation page the best thing is to write from your heart. If you need to edit anything you can do that at a later time but writing from your heart at first will help you be honest and most free dating site members are looking for honesty. Please remember as well that you do not need to be perfect - honestly rules.

3. Remember when writing your free online dating site profile that everyone and their mother likes to run, swim, go for walks, watch movies and the like. Try to be a little more specific and honest about what interests you or what you're seeking to take part in with your partner. The more details you give about your interests the more a free dating site member will be likely to contact you.

4. Try to get as much feedback from the free dating site members who have contacted you and try to be prepared and ready to vary your free online dating site profile after you have received that feedback from those who have read it. Usually I will ask people who have read my profile what they most liked about it or what they think I should change. That information can become quite valuable because other free dating site members are standing outside looking in and can tell what they are interested in. You should stay away from assuming that since you know yourself and what you are talking about that others will automatically understand as well. Every single free dating site member has their own unique understanding and view-point of the world.

5. Remember that the more you write about yourself in your free dating site profile the more you can sell yourself to other members and you are more likely attract better responses. Tip: one great way to figure out what a great free online dating profile looks like is by looking at other profiles that are getting high page views and liken your free dating site profile to theirs.

6. Try not to write a free online dating site profile that is too serious. Try to show a good sense of humor in your dating site profile description. It's true that if act a little playful it will make you much more approachable, less threatening and you'll definitely get better responses.

7. Be friendly and approachable in your free dating site profile description. Try to start off with captions like "Hi There " or "You'll surely find me to be a friendly and approachable person, write to me and find out". We have found that members who add wording like "I respond to all emails, so give me a try" will make you seem much more friendly and likeable. If at first site they like you then you will surely get some serious responses. It's best to be prepared to write at least 250 to 300 words if you really want to get good quality responses and build a kind of trust in the reader of your online dating site profile.

8. When describing yourself in your free dating site profile you should freely express your values, interests and desires. This can be a great opportunity to separate your free online dating site profile from the rest. By telling people what you like you open the door to inviting similar people into your life. A clear example is that in many dating site profiles the member states that the they love going to the beach but most don’t explain why they love going to the beach. Stating why you like something, once again can really make another free dating site member get a much better understanding of who you are and help them decide to contact you.

9. Last but not least. I really shouldn't have to expound on this but it is so very important that you spell check your free online dating site profile description. A simple way to do this is to write out your free dating site profile in word and then copy and paste it into the area of the free dating site where your profile information will go.

We hope this information was useful and that you take it to heart. If you apply these suggestions to your free dating site profile you're sure to get results and remember: Happy Free Online Dating from FreeDateClub.com.

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